Stretching the Truth--or Lying?

Is there really such a thing as a "little white lie"?  Many times we exaggerate and misrepresent the truth in order to establish our point, or to win an argument.  At times we may even lie to protect ourselves or to make ourselves look good.  Some might suggest that deception is acceptable and even needed if a greater good can be brought about.  Is fudging a resume or being generous on one's time sheet that big of a deal--most people do it?  However, when one begins to dabble with stretching the truth they often lose sight of the offense that it is to God, and even towards others.  A non-Christian may think that this is an over reaction or taking things too far, but just how much does God love truth?  It is one of his attributes and we are told that God cannot lie (John 14:6; Numbers 23:19).

Telling the truth can be very difficult at times because it can incriminate us for not following through, or doing the right thing when we said we would do it.  Christians are told to speak truth one to another (Ephesians 4:25) and not to twist the truth.  Most parents would expect the truth from their children, but then the truth can become an option for themselves depending on their situation.  Wouldn't it be better to tell someone the truth and then in humility ask their forgiveness in order to make things right?  As hard as telling the truth may be at times, it always brings about God's best.

People should not have to guess whether or not we are telling them the truth.  There should be no need to "promise" or "swear to God" that what we are saying is the truth.  Christ simply says to let your "yes be yes" and your "no be no" (Matthew 5:37).  For a Christian, we should speak from a sincere heart and know that we are honoring Christ with every thought, word, and deed (Matthew 12:36; Romans 14:12).  Christians should be known for telling the truth and in following through on their words because it is Christ-like.

Stretching the truth (lying) can be a real temptation for Christians.  Looking for loopholes to escape what we have actually said instead of owning up to our guilt is not all that uncommon.  Integrity matters in our daily walk as it says a great deal about our relationship to Christ.  When it comes to truthfulness, Christians should stand head and shoulders above the world because they represent Christ.  Indeed, the truth may cost someone their job or even divide friends, but God is always honored in doing the right thing.